14 relationship topics to explore together

Start with the part of your relationship you want to understand better. Each topic includes eight free conversation questions to answer separately and discuss together. There is no score to chase: the interesting part is how your experiences compare.

Mental load →

Is the mental load in your relationship actually equal?

8 free questions for couples

Communication →

Do you both feel heard in your relationship?

8 free questions for couples

Trust and relationship security →

Do you both feel secure in the relationship you are building?

8 free questions for couples

Emotional connection →

Do you feel as close as your partner thinks you are?

8 free questions for couples

Conflict and repair →

When you disagree, do you both feel respected?

8 free questions for couples

Sex and intimacy →

Does intimacy feel good for both of you?

8 free questions for couples

Emotional stability →

Can you both be yourselves when emotions run high?

8 free questions for couples

Stress and teamwork →

When life gets hard, do you feel like a team?

8 free questions for couples

Relationship effort →

Do you both feel that you are making time for the relationship?

8 free questions for couples

Fun and playfulness →

Is there still room for fun in your relationship?

8 free questions for couples

Friendship →

Do you still feel like friends as well as partners?

8 free questions for couples

Respect and boundaries →

Can you be close without losing room to be yourself?

8 free questions for couples

Shared future →

Are you imagining the same future together?

8 free questions for couples

Relationship satisfaction →

How does your relationship feel to each of you right now?

8 free questions for couples