Relationship test for couples

How the test works

Create a shared test and send your partner their invitation link. Each of you answers the same statements independently. Choose the answer that reflects your experience today, rather than the answer you think your partner would prefer.

When both of you have finished, open your shared report. You can compare your answers across topics and choose a difference to explore together.

• Start a test and invite your partner.
• Answer separately, at your own pace.
• Compare your perspectives once both have finished.

What you will reflect on

The statements cover everyday aspects of being a couple, including communication, closeness and your direction for the future. You might feel heard during difficult conversations but have different expectations about the time you spend together.

A broad relationship assessment helps you notice that pattern. You do not need to arrive with a specific problem, and you do not need to agree on every answer.

What your results mean

The report shows each partner’s answers, topic scores and how closely the answers align. A high alignment score means your responses are similar. It does not establish how healthy your relationship is: two people can also agree that something is difficult.

For example, one person might strongly agree that they feel listened to while the other is unsure. Ask what helped each of you choose that answer. A recent conversation, an interruption or a small act of attention can explain more than the number alone.

Turn the report into a conversation

Begin with something you both appreciate. Then pick one difference and give each person time to explain it without interruption. Try asking: ‘What would help you feel more understood this week?’

Finish with one small action you both want to try. Keep the report as a starting point for reflection; it is not a diagnosis, a verdict or a substitute for couples therapy.

Before you start