I feel heard when I bring up something important.

I have fundamental trust in my partner.

I feel seen, understood, and appreciated.

I feel like a priority during an ordinary week.

We can speak honestly about difficult things.

I feel fundamentally safe even when we disagree.

I feel physically and sexually attracted to my partner.

Our relationship is shaped more by calm than by turmoil.

We share the load fairly when pressure increases.

We both take initiative without one person having to be the project manager.

Our division of responsibilities feels sustainable in the long run.

We make enough time for our relationship.

We do new things and do not let everything run on autopilot.

Our relationship makes my life richer and more alive.

My partner is one of my closest friends.

It feels good to come home to my partner.

I can be my whole self in this relationship.

Our differences seem manageable over time.

I genuinely want more of my future to be with my partner.

Our relationship gives me more energy than it drains.

Our relationship has what it takes to be good in the long run.

I feel secure that my partner truly wants this relationship.

We choose each other, even when the relationship asks a little more of us.

Our relationship feels stable and secure enough for me.

My partner responds with care when I am having a hard time.

We show each other enough care and affection.

We can express our needs without the conversation often going off the rails.

We address important topics instead of putting them off.

We can disagree without contempt, digs, or personal attacks.

We find our way back to each other after a conflict.

Our problems are usually resolved, not simply buried.

We have enough physical closeness, cuddling, and touch for me.

I can be myself without walking on eggshells.

We can calm ourselves when emotions take over.

We both take responsibility for our own reactions.

When life gets stressful, we become teammates rather than opponents.

We support each other through difficult periods.

Most of the practical responsibility does not fall on me.

We do small things to make each other happy.

We create shared memories and plans to look forward to.

Our relationship feels like something we are building, not merely something we have.

We have genuinely good fun together.

We laugh a lot together.

I genuinely enjoy spending time with my partner.

I enjoy ordinary everyday life with this person.

My boundaries are respected.

We respect each other's alone time, friends, and interests.

I feel free and safe, not controlled.

We want to move in roughly the same direction in life.

Our relationship gives me more peace than worry.

This is a relationship I would choose again today.